How would you handle your mother in this situation?

my mom stopped talking to me because i became pregnant at 22.

she also took the car that she brought me in highschool when she found out.

she kicked me out 5 months pregnant

it wasn't until i called her 3 years later did she even attempt to talk to me.

i tried talking to her about how she missed out on 2 years of my sons life and she said she doesn't feel sorry for anything.

also growing up she has never hugged me or said she loves me. Never!!!

how do i deal with her?How would you handle your mother in this situation?
she acts like you got pregnant at 17 or sum. ask her wats her problem or stop messing with herHow would you handle your mother in this situation?
I think at this point you have to think of your son. A lot of times children turn out to be there parents, or they become the exact opposite. I think you need to move on with your life, if you mother thinks that she didn't miss anything she is wrong. This is her grandson, her flesh and blood if she thinks this is not a big deal then there is something wrong with her. Kiss and hug and tell your child you love him every chance you get, this is your life now be the mother your mother never was.
You try to put the past behind you and move on with your life and son. If she hasn't changed so far, she isn't going to make much of a move now, and if she does, it won't last. Soon things will be right back where they were before and she'll be driving you crazy again. Move away from her, set your life up the way it has to be, and get on with it.
So.... if she doesn't love you and treated you like garbage, then why do you care about her? You're only hurting yourself. She's not worth your time.
I'm sorry your mother feels this way about you.



If I were you I'de explain for the last time how you feel and what she's missing. Say that you cannot chase her anymore for her affection.



She'll be sorry eventually.

Although you love her, you don't need her, you have your own family who loves you.
Why are you dealing with her? Why would you want someone in your life who doesn't care? Some moms just don't have that motherly instinct and I would walk and not look back darlin......... good luck sweetie
Your mother seems very tough. This situation is very difficult and all I can suggest for you is to keep calling her and asking her to speak to you face to face as adults. Don't threaten her about your son. If she accepts the invitation to talk then talk to her about your son then. Tell her about him, about your husband and your life. Tell her about how you want her involved with your child and with you (if you want her to be). Hope this helps.
It sounds like your mom really doesn't care about you. I hate to say that because I can only imagine how that makes you feel but it's true. If she kicked you out and took your car with a baby on the way she can't have very many feelings of compassion. I would say she seems to be doing fine without you so don't even bother with her. I'm sure it hurts to leave your mom behind like that but you should find another Mother figure in your life. Whether it be an in-law or a friend maybe a teacher or anything. You can't make someone have feelings they don't have and if she doesn't feel sorry then that just says what kind of woman she really is. Best of luck to you!

So basically what I'm saying is just move on with your life and don't bother with her because it's obvious she is self centered
dont deal with her. you figured out that you can do it yourself and you dont need her. i wouldnt go to her, let her come to you if she wants a relationship