Mothers, how would you deal with your daughter in this situation?

My mom's friend has a daughter who is 24 and got pregnant and had a baby without a husband. The baby's father isn't involved. My mom's friend's husband is a very wealthy man and obviously the daugher's stepfather. Should the daughter obey that her stepdad pay for her baby? i mean...isn't that her own responsibility? he already supports his wife's whole family lol...why should he take care of his stepdaughter's bad choices? mothers, would you be peeved at your daughter? would she annoy you? how would you handle the situation? would you be mad at your husband for being irritated with the situation?oh and i forgot to add, the daughter is having sex with her stepdad's chauffer (driver) and when her mom and stepdad are in europe (they have a house there) she lets him live in her parents house and sleep with him. (Mom and stepdad have no idea) Would you be shocked if you daughter told you this? (i know this because i am friends with her daughter and she told me about her secret.LOL)Mothers, how would you deal with your daughter in this situation?
Since your friend's own father was not mentioned, I'll assume he's not involved either.

Your friend sounds like she has plenty of love from her family in terms of money, but no attention otherwise. It is sad that she had to have a baby and sleep with the chauffeur just to get some attention.

The parents are her parents, whether or not they are ';step,'; they have taken on responsibility for her. However, since she is also an adult, the parents have a choice of how they want to respond. Do they want to turn their backs, do they want to help her financially, do they want to set some kinds of limits.

Sounds like a pretty dysfunctional situation and I would stay out of it, if I were you. Your friend shared her secrets with you because she trusts you. Tell her how YOU feel about it and leave it at that.Mothers, how would you deal with your daughter in this situation?
These people don't seem to understand anything about what it means to be a _family_



Being a family would mean showing respect to one another as well as just doing what is needed to take care of one another. There's no score-keeping nor disregarding others feelings in a family.
To be honest,

If its your mums friend ... Then it dont really affect you or your mum.

I would stay out of it and let them get on with it.

If the daughter wishes to sleep with different men and take her step dads money its up 2 her and if her mothers just going to sit by and let it happen its there own problem not yours or your mums.

Dont get involved.

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