ok hears the deal my mother dont want me to b around this guy because she caught him in our house..we love each other so much and we been toge3ther 4 7 months...he say he cant live without me and neither i... weve been through some things but it seems like that feeling want go away..i want to stay with him but we cant talk or b around each, so i try to sneak when i can..i told my mother how much i love him and i want to b with him, that hes not the guy she think he is...what should i doWhat should u do when your mother dont want u to b with the guy u love?
please let me know when you find out. Me %26amp; my b/f r the same way except his parents wont let me c him. just b carful b/c they hav already branded me a whore. idk why b/c I thought I whore was sum1 who slept w/ many guys %26amp; i'm probubly more faithful then he is =( . WE love each other to %26amp; I sneak out at night to be w/ him. All we can do is wait till we're 18 where we can move out %26amp; b together. All you can really do is tlk to her %26amp; try to get her 2 understand how you trully feel about him. %26amp; try having your guy talk to her. idk. I really hope everything goes ok b/c I REALLY kno how you feel =(What should u do when your mother dont want u to b with the guy u love?
Be with the guy you love and just try to get your mom 2 understand!!!...and if she doesn't then keep sneaking out!
i have the same prob. i cant see my bff all summer b/c my ma says he too over protective..he gets jealous easily, n angry.i love him, n last summer we didnt c eachother either. i just tlk to him on the phone (which i cant 4 a wk b/c i broke the rules..no biggie my fault) and i make time to see him in skool. we dated a yr and 5 months...i broke it off b/c he got jealous all the time n other reasons (too long, no cheating though). but we both realized we needed to grow up so it was sorta mutual. but now we real tight, n love e/a but we need a lil spc thats all. and we did it last summer n we are guna do it again. gl. srry i kno how u feel, gl seriously..if u love eachother no one or nuttin can stop you from loving them. stay strong, n help eachother out. YOU CAN DO IT I PROMISE!!!
I kinda have the same problem. Just sit down and have a real talk with your mom. That's what I did and while I don't agree with my mom's decision I can respect her for it. Maybe you can change your mom's mind. The best of luck!
I have ';been there, done that.'; Listen to your mom. My mom was always right. If he doesn't show her respect then he won't show you respect. Just some rules of the trade. If you don't show her respect then it isn't likely that he will show her respect. There is a pattern. I don't recommend sneaking around. Did that too. She will find out. Be honest if you care about him and don't fight with her just concede, apologize, and have a mature conversation about the situation. I hope you figure it out.
-Christina
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