How are you suposed to deal with the first mothers day after your 8yo son and only child passed away?

my baby is gone and no one understands me. I am supposed to act like I am ME I am not that person anymore , I don't know who I am. I am scared and more alone than anyone in this world. I guarentee that cause I have noone. and the one I want to understand says he does but when I even ask for a HUG it's like I just asked for a kidney!!!!How are you suposed to deal with the first mothers day after your 8yo son and only child passed away?
i am so sorry. i had a nephew that i was extremely close to pass away about 6 months ago. i was so down and upset for about a month, but then i stopped dwelling and i re-lived all the good times we shared together. disney world, dairy queen, etc. etc. it was very hard for a while, trying to think about good things and good memories when someone you were so close to is gone, but after a while you have to realize, like i did, that he was gone and not coming back. he is sitting next to God up in heaven and that needs to be respected. just remember all the good times w/ your son and soon things will start to look up for you. i know you will never get over it completely, that ache in your heart will always be there...but if you dont stop dwelling you will never get anywhere. =)How are you suposed to deal with the first mothers day after your 8yo son and only child passed away?
we dealt with it by making sure hugs and laughter were aplenty :)
it'll be okay,u r still a mother and he is still ya son,i know u might not want to but have another child a let him live through that child
Im so so sorry to hear that, i hope one day you will get to be happy again, but there isn't much to do. Nothing is stronger than a child passing away, you're just going to have to greive a while, maybe busying yourself in something will leave just a little less time to be as depressed although it wont take the pain away completely.I'm with you. *hug* ps(i don't know if you're religious or not but if u are u should look up these scriptures in the bible:Isaiah25:8,9 John5:28,29 John11:25,26 Psalms146:5,9)
he sounds like hes got issues. i am so sorry for your loss.you poor woman. i can only imagine with tears in my heart how you must feel.i have an 8 year old and i know it would be the worst kind of pain.nothing will stop your pain. no words. just be as strong as you can and take it one day at a time. maybe 4 mothers day it would be best not to be alone ,try to stay busy.remember he's looking down on you and doesn't want you to hurt 4-ever. good luckand sorry i can't help you
I am very sorry to know about such a tragedy in your life.



Try to be with friends or family, people who will hopefully try to cheer you up.
You are still a mom, sweetheart. You can't hear your baby, but he's telling you happy mother's day from heaven and someday you will spend eternity with him.
sorry abt that.. i know how it feels 2 lose someone so precious 2 us.



but life has 2 move on. nobody shld ask u or force u 2b urself coz losing a baby is d very worst thing a mom can experience..



if u need a hug, im here 2 give u d warmest %26amp; cozziest teddy bear hug.