How do u deal with mother's day when u want to be a mother so badly???

If the doctor told u u can't have any kids even though u want a child badly, how do u handle mother's day. It's very hard to be around friends with kids but how can u deal with it and still be supportive to your friends?How do u deal with mother's day when u want to be a mother so badly???
Maybe you could volunteer at a women's shelter or nursing home, etc. Help out other women who are mothers or grandmothers and don't get recognized or appreciated in any other way. Try looking outside yourself. Through the love and support you show to others, you will feel better and more appreciative of the things you do have in your life. Hopefully you will be able to be a mother in the near future - if you can't have children, you could consider adoption or surrogacy. I wish you all the luck in the world.How do u deal with mother's day when u want to be a mother so badly???
awww i feel bad but girl look at the brighter side of life and its a sad thing but atleast you dont have to deal with a bunch of apes all around the house.
Its just a day, for goodness sakes.......
Consider this as God's way of helping children without homes. You could be the adoptive parent some little boy or girl has been dreaming of.
You never give up . If you want a baby bad enough and you have faith then don't give up . Consider it a test from God to see how committed you are . There are so many children out there that need homes full of love . Just because you can't give birth does not mean you will not be a mommy . Once you hold that child in your arms and look into there eyes they become your child for ever .
I would definetely look into adoption... if you really want to be a mother you deserve that chance!
Mothers day is no big deal really. But have you considered adoption?
I grow up and act my age. You are not the first person this has ever happened to.



Adopt.
You just have to suck it up.It hurts..also when you get older and don't have kids everyone assumes you do just cause you are older.I didn't have kids,not really a choice I was planning,just the way it goes.But,if you are young you should be able to get a child.It may be through adoption or fostering,which can lead to adoption,but there are many children that need good homes out there.Good luck.Try not to let it affect how you deal with your friends,they can't help it they were lucky enough to be able to conceive.
It's very hard and I sympathise with you. We had a miscarriage earlier this year and Mother's day was difficult for me. My two best friends have little ones and I actually find comfort being around them.

EDIT--To Johnny B--You have absolutely no idea what it feels like or you wouldn't make comments like that. What a loser.
I'm very sorry for you. My best friend just had a hysterectomy due to ovarian cancer. I see her pain, I can only imagine yours.



Treat it like any other day. It's perfectly ok for you to not do the mother's day thing with friends. Go to the movies, have a dinner with girlfriends that don't have children. There is no need for you to feel down about something you can't help. If these are friends, they will understand.
you mourn the loss of your dreams of having a child of your body and then when you are ready, explore adoption.



The child doesn't have to come out of your body for you to be a mother.
these days there are many ways to get a baby( scientifically) if you really want a child
I feel bad for you, Im very sorry. Look on the bright side, now you dont have to be a slave around the house and cant work