Sunday, December 11, 2011

What do you when someone gradually puts you down and embarases you infront of others?

My question is how do you deal with someone who constantly puts you down and hurts. And when you tell them something in private she or he says infront of others. How do you deal this person if they are your mother? Even when she prays to god infront of you asking for your death to be soon. Would you cut this person of your life? or keep her and be watchful? afterall she is your mother?What do you when someone gradually puts you down and embarases you infront of others?
OMFG!!! WTF?! RUN AWAY FROM THAT F UCKER!!!!



THAT IS MESSED UP!!!!! PUNCH HER AND CALL 911 SAY I NEED TO GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HERE!!!What do you when someone gradually puts you down and embarases you infront of others?
it sounds as if she has some hang ups of her own,she has not being able to face ,what better way than to put the blame on you,try to find out what has got in the way she is,i think she may hate herself and don't know what to do good luck, being there ,iknow how it feels
If you are talking about a friend, then yes cut her out of your life, because nobody deserves to be treated that way.



A mother, you say? Calmy talk to her about this. I strongly reccomend telling her how much it hurts you, and tell her that it is sinful to pray for your own child's death in that regard.



Like I said, nobody deserves to be treated that way. Especially by a parent figure.
Even Dear Abby would tell you to cut this person out of your life as soon as possible. It sounds like she has serious mental issues. Don't take anything she says seriously.



If you are a kid, do what you can to get out of the house as soon as you can... take a job after school and on weekends and save your money so you can put deposits down on your own place and utilities the minute you are 18.



If you are an adult, you can curtail the amount of time you spend with her. Perhaps you might visit one last time to see if you can find a doctor's name that she goes to... then call that doctor and tell him what all you are witnessing in her behavior. Let him call her in for an exam and run a few more tests... and maybe send her to a specialist.
I would probably stop telling her private stuff. And move far away and see her only occassionally. And not let my own children be harmed this way by her.



Also I would tell her how her actions make me feel. Unless she shapes up, I wouldn't give her any active role in my life.
My mother?



Oooo... That will be scary!!! For starters, my mother is already dead.
Avoid her company. In stead of retaliating, try to praise her deeds, in complete irony of what she's doing. Pray that she would realize her misdeeds soon. Just do what is righteous among the society of human and God.
I'd cut her out of my life.



I'm sorry, but just because someone is a blood relative, there's no need to live a life of misery at their expense.



She gave birth to you and I guess took care of you to a certain extent (but obviously not emotionally if she's doing this!), but what exactly does she think she's playing at by saying things like this. Has she got mental problems? I suppose she must have - no sane person would say something like that to anyone - let alone their own child.



I'm a daughter and a mother myself and I still say, ditch her - she's going to cause you nothing but misery. I'm sorry, but if this is the kind of thing she's up to, then you really don't want to be a part of it.



Don't be one of those poor kids who have a horrible life because of some useless bond to their family.



How old are you? I hope you're old enough to go off and live on your own. If you're not, then you need to tell someone sensible what is going on - preferably someone who isn't connected by blood or marriage to your family (colleague, friend, friend's parents, youth worker, doctor - someone like that).



I hope it goes OK.
i was about to say tackle her to the ground and rip off her earings. but then it said if it was your mom.

then my mind went blank
If she were praying for me to die??? I'd remove her from my life quicker than I'd swat an annoying mosquito buzzing around my head.



***the_ayam??? Calmly talk to your mother when she's praying for your death??? She doesn't deserve your respect at that point. I don't give a crap who she is!
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