How is a teen supposed to deal with this?
Thanks and God Bless you AllHow are supposed to deal with a fact that your mother is slowly dying?
Spend as much time with her as you can. Let her know how much you love her. Before she dies, promise her that you will tell your children about her.
I'm so sorry for both of you. I just lost my dad last year and my best friend's husband died at Christmas.
I promise that this will have an effect on your life. Make sure it will make your mom proud.How are supposed to deal with a fact that your mother is slowly dying?
make as many memories as you can
I am very sorry to read your message. You need to ask your mother what she would like you to do to help ( there isnt much you can do now) and then go on with your schoolwork being the best you can be in school so she can be proud of you. Smile, be cheerful to her and realize that life must go on and we all are going to die, she just knows when. Also you could write her a nice thank you later on telling how much you appreciate her. You are a wonderful son.
BE THERE FOR HER AND DONT LET IT BOTHER YOU UNTIL THE DAY COMES, DONT LIVE IN THE FUTURE LIVE IN TODAY . MY PARENTS DIED WHEN I WAS SIXTEEN, ITS HARD BUT YOU WILL GET THOUGH IT. IM NOW 20 AND I CAN TALK ABOUT IT AND I KNOW THAT IM OK
Live life to the fullest with her. As harsh as this sounds at least you know you have time with her left and she didn't get killed in a car accident or something, which makes it worse because you weren't ready for it. You have the right to make things better. Just be there for her as much as you can and make the most out of it. Sorry to hear about the situation you are in it has to be hard!
There really is no way to deal with it. Its going to happen and you cant change this. It will be hard and it may even change your life a little bit. I think the best thing to do is let everything out. If you think you need to be strong like alot of people do then they hold in their feelings in and it makes them fall apart. Its okay to cry and be mad at the world but remember not to let this ruin your life. Face the fact that it is her time to go and pray. Show her you love her and that you dont want her to go but you understand that its her time. During the last moments or days or even years you have with her you will be hit with guilt for everything mean you did or said or anything you have ever done wrong it will all come back to you but the only way to deal with it is tell her you are sorry. It may even make her cry but you have to be there with her because its harder for her than it is for you because shes supposed to be there to protect you no matter how old you are and shes leaving you. I think the only way to deal is to let it happen as it does. Im sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you.
You spend as much time as you possibly can with her. You attempt to fill the remaining time with a life that is as normal as possible. Remind yourself that at the end you do not want to have any regrets.
Losing a loved one in death is a very hurtful, difficult thing, I am sorry that you may lose your Mom while you are still so young.
I would suggest you begin a journal. Write down your feelings and observations. Don’t be afraid to cry. Find a trusted adult, a relative or maybe a school counselor to help you sort out your feelings. Surround yourself with positive friends.
There are special things about your Mom that you don’t want to forget. Why not create a memory book with pictures, things your Mom said that you think is especially witty, funny, or deep, add pictures. If your Mom isn’t too weak, maybe she can help you with this or you can find a simple craft project you can do together... www.michaels.com has some good ideas.
By your sign off “God Bless”, I assume that you believe in God. Pray to God and ask specifically that he help you deal with your situation with peace, strength and hope. I found an encouraging thought from the Bible:
“Whenever I am anxious and worried, you comfort me and make me glad.”
Psalm 94:19, Today’s English Version
I hope you find the help you need at this time.
I'm so sorry. This can be one of the hardest things for a teenager to go through. You can't stop this tragety from happening so just make the most of the couple years you have. Go do things with your mother that just help you get to know her better. Have a bunch of days where you two go and have the time of your life. You could even make a scrapbook of all your fun times together to remember her for the awesome mom she is. I've seen an article about a girl who lost her mother on girlslife.com. You could go there and check it out. Other than that just try to make these next couple years the best years of her life. I hope you get the answer you need
Considering your kind and loving answer to me, I hope the old douchebag gets azzraped on her deathbed.
What comes around goes around, cumquat.
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