How do you deal with your mother being a racist?

i mean shes so racist sometimes

just now she said ';im scared your sisters going to marry a black guy';

and then she tried to justify herself by saying ';their'; losers, lazy, and stink

which i told her was a stereotype and extremely racist

and we're asian so i tried to tell her the stereotypes against us and how would she feel when people said that about her

and she just nullified it with saying shes not like the others

she asked me if i would marry a black women and i said yes if i loved her

completely ridiculous trying to reason with herHow do you deal with your mother being a racist?
my parents are the same way too. dont feel like your the only dude. they dont want me to go out with any race but white or mexican. no puerto ricans. so just to get on their nerves i brought home a puerto rican and said that i loved him. i do but the thing is that you have to fight fire with fire. but most parents are already too old to change their mind so i just keep doing things like that.How do you deal with your mother being a racist?
I hope you marry a black woman, hope your sis marries a black guy, hope you 2 have lots of half black babies...see what mom thinks then.



i dont know if your Korean, but i notice korean moms can be like this. I used to date a guy who was half black, half korean (you hear that?) half black,...so that meant 'moms' had babies with a black man, but yet, did not want her half black boys to dates us black women. And all the stereotypes she mentioned about us are the exact same stereotypes on korean women, As a matter-of-fact, almost exclusively them. I dont know- weird.
well my hubby is arab right and the way i did it was not give a flying ***** what they said who are they to tell me who i can and cannot love(well im underaged soo i cant do anything now) they are from 2 different races no1 could tell them so why me

but since your asian idk if she will disown your sis bc of a man (unless he hits her) shes not a very good mother
haha! my mom isn't quite as racist as yours but we weren't alowd to watch black sitcoms and shows and stuff. also she thinks oprah is the antichrist, can't help thinking the same, that womens hell!
Best thing to do is ignore her, I understand that she is your mother and the last thing you want to do is hurt or disrespect her but sometimes you just have to ignore the ones you love and realize they will never change their train of thought. Love who you want because in the end that's all we have and if you allow something petty like racism or disappointing a family member tear you from the one you want to be with then you will never get that love back.
Can't blame her. Most of the time, I see non-blacks that date black men, date the loser ones. Prove her wrong by bringing a goog black man around. I often hear a lot of white women who talk about how much black guys are better, yet they're single mothers...with half black kids. Still to many, it's not about the individuals but the community. I personally wouldn't want to be involved in the black community because it's hard. I lived it and don't want to go back.