How would do deal with your mother's death?

my mom passed away almost a year ago, is it normal to be depressed and grieving about it.How would do deal with your mother's death?
It is entirely normal to still be grieving and hurt. I lost my mom when I was 10 (i'm 26 now) and i still miss, grieve and hurt, expecially around her birthday and the time of the year she died. There is no magic words or something you can do to make it stop, there is no easy way to deal with it. All I can tell you is take it one day at a time and get through that. As time goes on the pain does lessen and diminish. Part of it will always be there and never leave but things will become more managable and not so raw and sore as time moves on. There are many wonderful groups out there, many free, that deal with grief counciling. Try one of them, the support is wonderful since everyone knows what you are going through. Good luck!How would do deal with your mother's death?
It's a hard process. It takes a long time but you will get over it. Time is what heals you.



Remember your mom fondly and be happy that you spent the time you did with her.
I am so sorry but one has to move on, indulge yourself in other activities and most of all think that she is looking at you up from the sky and when you cry, she doesnt feel happy.

She really looks at you. believe me!
yes, you never get over it but you learn to live with the loss. there is no time limit law given as to how long you should grieve but if it is still affecting your life in a way where you feel you cannot function then it is best to seek help from a professional advisor (a shrink)
it is normal to be grieving about it more especially if she has left you many memories, if she was close to you, after all it's a big loss cause she was your mirror and losing her you cannot have reflection's you used to have while she was here
You never really get over it, but you have to believe that she wouldn't want you to be sad all the time. She would have wanted you to move on and live your life with Happiness. Just remember that She is watching you and it will please her to see you making the most of your life.
First of all let me extend to you my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom. While it is true that time does heal the hurt, there are going to be times when you miss her a great deal. Especially important moments in your life, graduations, weddings, children etc.



The best thing I can say to you is take one day at a time one moment at a time. You are going to have times of pain and you need to be present for that as hard as it is. Look for supportive friends and family who know what you are going through who will listen and let you talk about your mom.



In time you will remember less of her loss and more of the celebration that she lived.



But you need to take good care of yourself and the rest will follow naturally. If you find yourself in a deep depression for too long, don't hesitate to contact a therapist, couselor who can guide you through this painful time in your life.



Know my thoughts are with you and that I care. If you need to talk about your loss, the yahoo group parentalloss is a good place to get the support you need and they are a great group of very nice people.