Thursday, October 21, 2010

How do you deal with your annoying SINGLE mom in your pre-teen years?

I have an annoying mother that I need help dealing with...does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with mothers in your pre-teen years?How do you deal with your annoying SINGLE mom in your pre-teen years?
look at mom's side then u might not think u have it so tough. she has work, bills, cleaning, taking care of u, making sure u get 3 meals a day, shopping and laundry just to mention a few. have ur friends over, clean up their messes. cater to u and everything she can possibly get for u that u want. deal with the broken or water logged electronics cos u had an oopse. what do we get for it? rules ignored chores helped with oh what are chores u say? or 80,000 i forgots a month up to and including homework and reports that are due the next day and we get told 5 minutes before we have to leave for work or a meeting. rolled eyes, snotty answers, don;t want to hear i love u or get hugs. honey deal with it we all have problems. u r just coming into puberty and guess who has to understand and has to deal with it. oh and the greatest of all mom u just don't understand u have never been through this (whatever this happens to be at the moment) do u kids really believe mom was born at 30, never had a period, stress, my oldest told me once that there was no peer pressure when i was growing up. u really think other kids didn't double dare us to run out and play with the dinosaurs? sheesh! yes we were there we did the same stuff u did. maybe it had different names back then but y do u think we have eyes in back of our heads? cos we know the tricks and u r so much like us we almost know to the moment when u will do something crazy or outstanding. 6 more years and u can see how if feels to be a single parent. i pray u will never feel the single part of that. there is an old saying that at 3 years old mom knows everything at 10 mom knows some things. at 15 mom knows nothing and at 25 mom knows a lot at 40 u wish mom were around to talk to. good luck kiddo u r gonna need it with the loving attitude u have for mom.How do you deal with your annoying SINGLE mom in your pre-teen years?
Advice, bite the bullet. Deal with it. Thats all you can really do, like of course there are other roads to take like emancipation. But in the end that is just going to be ten times more difficult.
by rolling my eyes, denying she was my mom, and trying to avoid her at every turn, just waiting until I turned 18. But ya know, surprise surprise, by the time I was about 20, it was amazing and shocking to realize just how right she was most of the time and that I was actually the one who was annoying.
I thought my mom was annoying too, but when I got to college I realized that she was right all the time. Now I feel bad about it. Just deal with it. Sadly it's part of growing up.

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