How do you deal with your family when this happens?

My older sister gotten pregnant and now my mother is on me about not doing it and don't be having no boy over to her house, because she and my older sister believe I will be the next to do something like that because I read about sex, and all that.



To top it off, My mother turn off the house phone, cable and I don't have a cell phone. I'm not allow to go anywhere unless my older sister or my mother know where I am. This whole thing is driving to the point where I want to run, what do I do? I've tried to pray, but It seem as though god has me on mute or something.How do you deal with your family when this happens?
Talk to them and explain that you feel stifled. Tell them that you don't think that it is fair to make you pay for someone else's mistake (a mistake that you have not made and do not plan on making). If they still remain firm in the way that they are treating you, don't worry just yet. You might have to earn a little more freedom by showing them that you aren't going to make the same mistake that your sister made. Just remember that they are doing all of this because they love you and are worried.How do you deal with your family when this happens?
Your Mother has gone a bit overboard but please try to understand her position. Tell her that she is over reacting. Does she have a good reason, based on your past actions to be this way with you ?
well, i think you should speak to some1 that your motehr trust and listens to, and explain to them the situation, how your mother is understandably worried but this is goin overboard, she can't do this to you for ever and that it will eventually become to much for you and you will rebel, causing exactly the opposite of what your mom is trying to acheive.

maybe you could try tell her this yourself, try work out some sort of compromize......

gd luck:-)
Tell them to stop punishing you for what someone else did.
Your mom probably didn't think it was going to happen to your older sister and is now trying to do what she thinks she should have done to prevent it to you. She wants you to have a future and has learned the hard way how easy these things can happen. Your mom is doing the best she can and although it seems difficult it isn't unreasonable. Try to look at the positive side. The money she saves on the phones, and cable can help in other areas especially now that there is an additional person coming. Just tell your mom where you will be and actually be there. This can only be a problem when you would like to go somewhere you know she wouldn't approve of otherwise it really isn't a big deal. Keep praying honey sometimes ';God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers.';.
this doesn't happen to most families...
Hug your mother. She loves you more than you will ever know. She isn't trying to make you pay for someone else's mistake. I know it seems that way, but she only wants what's best for you. She wants you to have a good future, and having a child at an early age will make it very hard for you. If your sister is a teenage mother, she has a long, hard road ahead of her. Your mom doesn't want you to have that same long, hard road. Just remember, it is a mothers job to worry about her children, and if she didn't worry about you, she wouldn't be much of a mother.
try talking to ur mom about this. shes probably worried cuz she doesn't want th same thing to happen to u. if things don't change, try talking to a school consular. they might be able to help.

but don't worry, she's not trying to punish u, she's probably just shocked and really upset.
Well I don't think your mother is an idiot. I think she's upset with your sister and afraid for you so that you won't walk in your sisters foot steps. It's a scary thing to have your child pregnant especially if your sister is under aged. Your mom will have to take care of her own grandchild probably. That's not cool. So she's going to be harder on you for a while now. Get used to it and don't let her down. Teenage pregnancy is the worst thing to happen. So you know what to do now regarding your teenage hormones.
The fact that you have the word ';Sexy'; in your name is a big red flag. I don't blame your mom one bit for treating you this way.