How to deal with mother in law who is always angry by your actions,who always interprets you in a wrong manner

tell her...It is said that if you line up all the cars in the world end to end, someone would be stupid enough to try and pass them.How to deal with mother in law who is always angry by your actions,who always interprets you in a wrong manner
ITS very common in this world. not only for you. everwhere the same. try to solve the problems with smooth approach.How to deal with mother in law who is always angry by your actions,who always interprets you in a wrong manner
keep your mouth shut
Perhaps elaborating on one or two events helps us to understand the situation better. Well, some people seem to be so difficult to please but it is the underlying element that really matters - is it frustration/ jealousy/ possessiveness of her son and home/ need for perfection/ not being able to adjust to addition to the family? We need to find remedies to that.
THE ONLY SOLUTION IS TO BE SILENT WHEN U R M.I.L IS ANGRY WITH U. DON'T THINK SHE WILL BE HAPPY AFTER SHE SCOLDS U , INSIDE HER HEART SHE WILL BE CRYING . ONCE UPON A TIME SHE WAS ALSO A D.I.L AND FACED SO MANY PROBLEMS THAT'S WHY SHE IS SUCCESSFUL AS A WOMAN WITH HER HUSBAND.

WHAT SHE IS TELLING U , U DO IT NOTHING WRONG. IF THERE IS SOME MISTAKE SHE WILL REPENT FOR IT , NOT U.



IN THAT WAY U R NAME WILL SHINE IN U R HOUSE AS WELL AS , IN U R SURROUNDING.
Ask her what she wants you to do. if it is good, then do it ,for the sake of unity and peace at home.
You might want to get the book: The Borderline Mother. It sounds as if she might have a personality disorder. It also sounds as if she likes ';provoking'; you. I think you'll need to verbally set some limits with her and start re-directing some of her negativity. For instance if she criticizes your opinion on something, you might want to say: ';we can agree to disagree'; or something like that. You might also want to start limiting your contact with her. Remember, you can't change her. You can only change your reactions to her. Stand your ground and don't try to placate her. If she senses weakness, then she'll continue to go in for the ';kill'; with you...
Let your spouse deal with her. You stay away from her.
Pray to God to grant you patience to preserve harmony.
In-law relationships are different than any other relationship because the way you treat them will affect your relationship to your mate.

THEREFORE, in the interest of a happy marriage, listen respectfully to her, thank her for wanting the best for you and your spouse, and tell her what a good mother-in-law she is.

THEN go rinse all the crap out of your mouth and go on with your life.
Speak to her, but keep her at a distance.

Don't try to be her friend.

Don't try to get her opinion or approval.

Don't be rude to her. Just don't buy into her misery.
Just ignore her and she will get the message .. make sure when you ignore her you have a smile on your face and you dont talk to her as well



Regards

Sameer Shaikh

http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
Praise her son (to her) all the time... She can't interpret you in a wrong manner andshe can't be angry to you...



Simple logic isn't it...
Learn to let her ramble and let her think you are listening .

Smile sweetly and nod in the right places.

Then do what you think is right for you and your spouse.
First tell me you. Are you a lady or gents?

If lady, then keep Patience, and think about your mother also, when she was angree on your habits/homework,at that time how you manage/or tackle the entire situation.

If gents, then move from her house, (if you are a GHAR JAMAI)
This is common through out the world...so don't worry about this!
Accept her all orders. Show her that you have much regards to her and you take care too. Take her blessing on everything you wanted to do tactically. Basically you should become her favourate to win her. Dont be different to her.Best of luck!
the best ways is just ingore her.
well my boy tret her in same manner until she realises ur importance and show that even u have self respect u r not coward . tell ur brother if this does not works until a week.
IGNORE
family counseling and lots of prayer.
We moved out of state and my mother-in-law doesnt call my home number she calls my husbands cell phone so I don't have to deal with her.THANK GOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!