How will I be able to live?

I just had a lonnnng dream that my mom died and I woke up crying. Right now, I'm 14, and I could never bear the thought of my mom dieing. I can almost promise, I would either kill myself or go phsyco. Mybae it's just because of my age...



But I don't see how I could ever live without my mom, period. We're like best friends, but it scares me knowing someday she's going to die...



Is it hard to deal with... your mother's death?



Do you think I could ever end up killing myself over it?How will I be able to live?
That is a fear we all go through at your age, as you grow and mature, you begin to realize that we will all die someday, and that is the order of things.



You will be less frightened, but when it happens, it will not really lessen your sorrow.How will I be able to live?
well you could always kill yourself to be with your mom...
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You would be strong, and deal with it if it happened! BUt, why dwell onsomething that was just a dream, and may not happen or a long time????? I would just try to enjoy the time you DO have with your mom, I don't have a good relationship with mine, and I don't know just how sad I would be if she did pass away....how sad is that?
to see sum1 dead means they r gonna hve a long life.........u shldnt cry u shld be happy silly

u check around dere sooo many books dat say dat or check da net
no you wont be able to see her in the after world because you would go to hell and she would go to heaven so dont kill yourselff.
I'm 28 and honestly, I think every girl athat is 14 goes to bed at night with a little prayer that her Mom doesn't die. We have all been there. That is why you should spend time with her, love her, and then when she does die (hopefully when she is 100) you will not have any regrets. The same goes for your Dad. That is the best thing to do.
This is something you do not have to and should not worry about now. Your mother and you have many many years left together, and those will be happy years. A LONG LONG time from now, wheny our mother does pass away, you will be sad and you will mourn, but you will keep going in life and live it to the fullest, because thats what your mother wants of you and there is not better way to honor her.



But, thats something for MANY many years down the road, not just concentrate on how good life is and loving her as best you can.
every one dies you morn then move on it is all part of life ..... just enjoy each other while she is alive
It must be hell to lose a parent at such a young age. I lost my father when I was 37 and it nearly tore me apart, but I survived it. You will, too, no matter what your age is when it happens...
Oh sweety, what a horrible nightmare to have. I'm so sorry. Let me tell you, it is not because of your age. I am in my thirties and lost my mom and years later it is still hard. Time has healed the gut wrenching pain part. But it's still hard. Some days I still cry. Believe it or not, (and it wont happen, it was just a nightmare not a premonition) but you would get through it. You wouldn't kill yourself. God, gives us the strength to make it through those times. You'll be ok. Think of happier things and go talk to your mom. She'll make you feel better. I promise.
yes, it's queit undigestable but the fact every one is to die oneday .but as it ur young u can never imagine that.but u must over come that b casual . there is no need to kill urself..........
I had a dream like that when I was maybe 6 or 7. You just have to accept that death is inevitable. When you're older I'm sure you will still be close to your mom, but you won't be dependent on her anymore. You will have been living on your own for years. It'll still be sad, but you won't feel like killing yourself.
Listen you mom maybe yout best friend but think about it soon your mom will not die soon she;s gonna die when your married and happy when she dies you;,lll have your husband and your kids...kk for now be happy
do i think you could? sure why not your capable, do i think you would?... well that sort of depends on how much pot you had left :)
Your mother is probably not going to die any time soon. Me and my mother are best friends too. I don't know what I would do if she died but she is not going to die any time soon so I don't think about. It does the trick.
everybody dies sometime it's something you learn how to live with! my mother and father are both gone and like my father said my life will go on,the world isn't going to stop and let you off!
its just a bad dream u had, u must forget about it because its just a dream........and see good things and always be happy .......have good thoughts ........have fun........sweet dreams.
Please stop thinking like this. you know that our thoughts can come true. Think more positive things. Don't be afraid
When I was young I felt as you did, I loved my mom very much and I feared how things would be if she died. How would I live without her, how would I cope. I grew up and had my own children and I always let my mom know how much I loved her and appreciated her. She was a great mother and a good grandmother to my children. My mom died in 2003. It was very hard but I found comfort in that I always told her I loved her we had quality time together, we enjoyed each others company. I was so lucky to have her. I still miss her and at times I cry and wish she was here with me, but life moves forward and one day we will all die. Love your mom, be a good daughter and you will be okay. You will not kill yourself if your mom dies. It will hurt but faith will help you. Do not dwell on the inevitability of death but live life a day at a time. Be happy and be thankful you have a great relationship with your mom. You are very lucky as I was...
Some people do....



Not a good life choice. Live on!
it will be hard.. your with your parents for years and then one day their gone.. it's not like they wanted to leave, i'm sure that they'd want to continue being by your side, but life is just like a book, the ending will come whether your ready or not.. i don't think you'd kill your self for one reason, she wouldn't want that.. your mother would want you to continue living your life out as you wanted.. she will still be there watching and guiding, but with no words or hand to hold.. don't end your life or go psycho because of an event that you can't stop.. you can just go on and live and keep her memory alive, because with out acknowledgment of someone being alive, it's like they never existed at all.. so live your life, spread word of her to your kids and their kids.. keep her memory alive.. you'll be fine, it might take a while, but you will understand and live..
I feel the same way about my mother and I am 24. So I dont think your reaction is because of your age. A mother is very difficult to let go of. They are the person responsible for all the nurturing and understanding and loving a person needs in their life. To be able to wake up one morning and say thats it, I dont want this anymore and I can live without it because my mom has died is ridiculous. The need is there. Fear of losing something you cant fathom losing is ohhh so normal. Your mother obviously means a lot to you and that is good be sure to let her know that. But dont worry it was only a bad dream, you are young and for that reason I am willing to bet so is your mother. She has a lot of time left in her. Just be sure to tell her every day how much she means to you and enjoy life now. You can cross that bridge when you get there. As far as killing yourself when it does happen, well I dont think you will, your mother wouldn't approve and as much as you love your mother I dont think you would risk the disappointment and unapproval. Enjoy your life, and leave the nightmares to only hinder you while you sleep. Disregard them as soon as you wake. They are not worth it.
Sweetie, I felt exactly the same way you did when I was 14. I use to tell my mother that if she ever died, that I wanted to die with her. I loved her sooo much and I still do. But as you get older, you mature of course...well some people don't...hehe but you begin to understand that everybody has to eventually die one day and you slowly start to accept it even though it will still hurt. As a child, you still need her more than ever so of course it will hurt more right now if she were to die. Having that dream was just a dream of one of your biggest fears that you subconsciously have.

Is it hard to deal with a mother's death? For most people...yes of course. But if you belive in spirituality, death is only of the flesh, not the spirit. Do I think you could ever kill yourself over her death? That's hard to say. I hope not but it just depends on your emotional stability and how well you can cope with the lost of a loved one. But don't let that dream get to you. Go give your mother a hug, explain your dream to her and tell her how much you love her! I know you are bound to feel better afterwards with the love and understanding you get back from her. :)



lmao @ young_man504....that's insensitive.
u can deal with it in the same way ur mother dealed with her mother's death