How do you deal with your childs stepmom..when she what too take over..your role..and does not respect you?

has beat you in front of your cild in the past..calls you names.try to sign papers that she is the mother..does everything to make your life hard..and you have shared custody with the father..and you and the father can not talk cause she is worried you will get back together..I have asked ocy for a sit down about this..what more can I do? I do not want my ex back..but we are still parents of a two year old boy..what do I do..how do i talk to her and tell her that the child deserves to love both parents..and stop be so hateful to me..I did nothing to her..How do you deal with your childs stepmom..when she what too take over..your role..and does not respect you?
If I were in your place I would try and get a hold of your child's father, despite the fact that his present girlfriend/wife is currently in some sort of retarded world of her own and thinks you're there to get him back. This is your child's father, it's not a guy that you dated and still happen to talk to for no valid reason. For the sake of your child, you should go ahead and contact him even if that means going to see him at his job.



You as a mother are responsible for your child's physical and mental health and it's your job to protect him. If she's trying to take that right away from you, then by all means, you have every right to retaliate. Of course I don't mean go ahead and beat her up, I mean take that child away from her. It's not her kid, she shouldn't be signing papers stating she's the mother of YOUR child.



If you want to keep a healthy relationship between you and your ex for the sake of the child, then you're doing the right thing. But if she's going to give you a hard time about it, then you have to put your foot down and tell your ex you will take FULL custody of him.



If I was in your place, there's NO WAY I would tolerate that, so why should you?How do you deal with your childs stepmom..when she what too take over..your role..and does not respect you?
No one gets by with trying to overstep me. I would stomp her ***.
obviously the father of the child has no respect for you either. He needs to put her in her place.