Is it right for one,s Mother to Withhold Who your Father is?

If your Mother Concived you at Collage and Ran Away from School and Did not in form the person she Was with of her condition,Is that Fair? On top of all that The Reason for her actions is because the position That Her family has in The

Comunity';RICHER THAN1/2 the third words economys are';

Is why she runs off in the first place. Yes she Keep,s you

but will not answer your question,WHO IS MY DADDY?

HOW would you deal with this? I am looking foward to your answers!Is it right for one,s Mother to Withhold Who your Father is?
Assuming that your mother is a good mother and that she cares for you, I would have to say that your Mother has her reasons for not telling you. Although she may be protecting herself, I would hope that she is also protecting you from someone who may not be a good person or whom might take advantage of your mom's family money.

It sounds like you are concerned and that part of you needs some answers. Tell your Mom about how you feel and how not knowing really upsets you. Even if she won't give you an exact name, maybe she could at least explain to you why she is so against your ever knowing him.Is it right for one,s Mother to Withhold Who your Father is?
First of all it is wrong.

No matter the situation every child should know both parents in all fairness. Maybe the father would do more harm then good being in the childs life and the mother doesn't want the child to get hurt.

Once the child is old enough to find out on their own they always can.
First, I would write a letter to your mother, telling her how much you need to know who you are. Half of you is a blank. Whatever her reasons, she needs to know exactly why you ask. She may fear losing you to your father. She is thinking only of her own comfort. If your letter is heartfelt, she may listen to you after reading it.

You could try enlisting the aid of a close relative, by explaining to them how you feel, the pain of not knowing, the questions you want answers to, they may be willing to talk to your mother with you.

I wish you all the best. If you never find out, you are still a great human, and worthy of respect.
It's possible there is more to the story than you know. Could be anything from an affair she had with a married man or she was drunk and has no idea who the father is. I guess I would suggest you honestly let her know your reasons for wanting to know and if you did know, what would you do about it. If she is trying to protect you from something, you both should work on this together.
maybe she doesn't know who your father is and is to ashamed to tell you. and what if you knew who your father was, and he never had anything to do with you or support you?



for what ever reason -- your mother did what she thought was right at the time and now with not telling you who he is.



i think your mom loves you more then you know
First of all, you are an adult who has moved on with his life and raised a family. Why, really, do you care at this point in time? Your mom has raised you and been there for you through it all. She deserves all your love and respect. The woman has her reasons. Maybe this guy would not have been accepted by the family; maybe he was no good and she was ashamed; maybe he would try to extort money. Who knows. I say it's high time you let it go and move on with raising your own son to be a good man, like his father.
It is wrong.



Tell her you are disappointed with her and her actions.

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