How would you deal with your boyfriend being inlove with you and another woman?

He and this other woman were together before you and him get together and they shared a child but she had to move away and they ended the relationship. You and this get met and you both felt inlove, a mean you felt really deep inlove with this guy. Now his child mother is back and she wants him back and she is using the child to do so and because it is his only child which he love very much and he doesn't want her to take away which she is threaten to do if he doesn't come back to her. Now he is telling you he is still inlove with her and he doesn't want to lose you because he has never felt this way about anyone but you and he is so inlove with you and want to be with you.But he is caught between a rock and a hard place. What would you do if it were you?How would you deal with your boyfriend being inlove with you and another woman?
He has a baby by another before he met you. Her and the baby move away. Now she back in your boyfriends life in a big way. I see how he is close to his child more fathers should be that way. Nothing is wrong with him spending time with his baby. On the another hand the babys mother should not use the child to take your man away from you right now. She is wrong for and her payback will come soon trust me on that. You cant use a child to keep a man from moving on with a new woman. She is the stuid one for that. All out the she just up and wants him back no damn reason. Has she come at you with something. Ask me he really needs to choose not between you and his child but you and his baby's mom. Baby mom is acting like a real *****. If he really cares about you then he can be with you and his baby without his baby's mom popping up with all her got damn ******* drama. I got a point to what I saying and I know you can find it too. Now more that I can do for you now. From here on out step up and say what you feel to the both of them. Never give up without a fight. It will not be simple but you will make a way to go. Its a rock and a hard place for not only him but now for you as well.How would you deal with your boyfriend being inlove with you and another woman?
chuck him
He wants to work it out because he loves he's child. I can understand that. It would be difficult to let him go, but you must do that because if you don't, he'll never forgive you for making him chose between you and his child. If he realizes you are the one for him, he'll come back to you. You must let him go...
get ride of him you deserve better im sure!
hes playin you girl.
well i would hold on. I mean just wiat and see what happens. If he doesnt end up with her again...back off...it will hurt...but he can come back to you or you will find someone better. Just let your heart guide you..
you don't need the drama. Leave him. If he has unresolved feelings now they will not go away by being with both of you. He can't have his cake and eat it too :)
Honestly, I think he's playing you. If that child is his, he can get court ordered visitation or maybe even joint custody and his ex wouldn't have anything to say about it. The fact that he's allowing her to manipulate the situation just tells me that he isn't willing to move on in his life with you. I know you love him, but I would cut my losses and get out of that relationship.
Been there, so I can understand how hard it is. The child is as much his responsibility as it is his ex's, but he has to draw the line and decide what is more important to him, the child or the relationship with you.
hes fakin- dump him