I have crazy family members myself, so I can sympathize, but tonight was ridiculous. My family is more in your face, while his is sneaky.
Anyone have this problem and how do you deal with it? I never said anything until tonight, but I could not take it anymore. I feel bad because I don't want my husband on bad terms, but if I never talk to them again, that is fine. Like I said, their selfishness and sneakiness is incredible.How do you deal with your spouse's crazy family members?
That is how my boyfriend's mother and brother's are, she ditched him when he was younger and is truly despicable. Just because they are your family does not mean you have to like them. It would be nicer if you got along, not just for you, but your husband too. But it can't be helped.
I usually just grit my teeth and bare it for my boyfriend's sake, but when they are truly, down-right messed up, then just let go. Don't let it all pent up. Or you can always just try and avoid them.How do you deal with your spouse's crazy family members?
your right, keep your distance. he can deal with them, you don't have to.
it seems we are ALL crazy at some point or other, we have our own idiosyncrasies n our own mindset too. Our negative thoughts/feelings about others could well be the same with theirs too. The only way to avoid problem is to avoid getting into anyone's way n just be as cordial/civil to each other. Agree to disagree when necessary so as not to step on each other's toes.
screw the in-laws...
im going through the same thing! my husbands parents are insane! u have no idea! i just act nice, then tell my husband when they leave all the things i didnt like. ive been telling him for about a year now and i havent seen them in over 7 months:) woo hoo!
try talking to ur husband about it. and good luck
told the brother in law there is your truck there is the road feel free to hit it if you don't like it. didn't see him for over a month and he refused to pull into the drive way to talk to my hubby he stayed on the road and hubby had to talk to him out there. basically I don't put up with their crap any more I tell it like it is and if they don't like it too bad it's my house
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